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Thursday, January 14, 2010

Thoughts on Thursday

"Speak Clearly"
No one would every call me a quite person I'm a talker there is no doubt about it but do people understand what I'm saying. There seems to be some un-written rule between the hubby and I that we can read each others minds...ummm no. Why is it that we assume that our spouse will automatically understand what we are saying and then get mad/frustrated when they don't.
I don't know when you need me to move left unless you tell me to and you don't know that I'm talking about Iowa not MN unless I clarify that. It seems simple enough, why don't we just communicate more clearly?? Humm that is something I need to work on.


Wendi@Every Day Miracles said...

Oh my! -This is SO true! :) The whole "Can't you read my mind?!" thing drives my hubby crazy! I am Finally (After almost 10 years...) starting to get it - I HAVE to tell him what I'm thinking. :)

Amber DeYoung said...

Hey Wendi Thanks for the comment it seems so clear to me everytime we are getting frustrated in a conversation its because we think the other one knows what we are talking about but they don't....Now if I wasn't so stubborn this would be easy to correct ;)